help with swf files in a explorer (server)?

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im creating a web page, is my first one, so im checking it on wamp server. is based on flash, and inserted into html, with a litle php on it. i have a problem, once i put it all together, and pressed f12 in dreamweaver it said something about activex, that i needed to give permision to play the swf file and stuff. when i was testing a part of the flash part (a button) i had to give access to the file in the browser, i dont know why, and if i dont, then the wamp server dont open the swf file through the html file, it only opens if i open it directly.
my real questions are.
is there a way to avoid those messages, like letting my explorer open any swf file i want to, so i can test my files with no problem?
when i put all my files into a server, or lets say those places were you have to pay to upload you web page into the internet. will everybody who opens the page have the same problem? everybody have to change the explorer configuration?
can i publish web pages through wamp? how?